Originally Posted by What is next?
If it was "fog", that would make some sense, although, it has been 6 months. I sometimes wonder if she is cold, or just feels somehow justified in what she did. When I ask a tough question she always responds with "yes I'm sorry" or "of course I'm upset I hurt you", but it never comes without me asking, and it always comes with a "you are asking this again?" tone.
Draw a line in the sand so to speak. 3 months, 6 months or whatever. If no true progress is shown by then then file for D. Lots of times being served with papers breaks the wall down and some true emotions come out. But be prepared for her to be relieved and to walk away.
Kinda sounds like she is not committed to the marriage despite what she is saying. She may want you to file so she can claim the the divorce is not her fault and she did not want it. If she is showing no emotion when asked the tough questions, then the emotional commitment to you is simply not there. Time to move on.