| | Re: Recently seperated Help please
Maybe you guys should try going to counseling together, too, after a while? It sounds like she is really very bothered about something and you're not understanding her POV. Maybe she is taking your behavior differently from what you mean and is struggling to communicate with you about it in a way that doesn't negate her needs and wants. You say yourself that you have been neglectful. You also say that you want this relationship. Maybe you just need to give her some time to heal a little so that she has the strength she needs to work things out with you. Keep going to counseling on your own and hopefully, she will join you at some point. Don't read more into her need for space than she is saying. Sounds like she just needs to figure some stuff out on her own. Contact her after the date you guys agreed is okay for you both and see what happens. Hang in there.