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Old 12-28-2011, 11:18 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: When is it Ok to see other people?

When you feel you are ready to.

I personally think dating before a divorce is finalized is bunk cause you're "still married." And not just that but I think it's in poor taste and also just an all around bad decision to go from the freaking arson of a fire to another little fire. What's the point?

I have never and will never understand people who are separated and/or freshly divorced who start dating immediately.

They are so alien to me.

If you feel you are totally done with your marriag eand completely moved on 120% from your wife, then have it. Just don't expect to meet your next great love.

Also, be wary of anyone who'd be into dating you while you're still married... that says a lot about them, I think.

Not that they are evil, but... someone who would wbe willing to do that is willing to deal with the madness of a divorce/separation and all the drama that goes with that... it just... is nuts, IMO.
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