My ex-wife and I had this same problem. Alot of it was a mind set and alot of it was both being stubborn because we felt that neither was getting what we wanted. Problem is men and women have an issue of not realy talking or listening until it is to late. What we discoverd after the divorce is that we both wanted the same thing but, that we needed to go about it diffrently. I was not full filling her need of basicaly being corted to and made to feel extra special. She was not filling my need to fill desired and wanted. We were both selfish and neither would give to the other because we wanted the other to give to us. Seams stupid but I see so many marriages like this. Some how you need to find what she needs. It could be as simple as a date away from the house to maybe just cuddling and watching a movie together. One of you has to give in to the other nees first.
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