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stevewsc · 08-03-2007, 12:42 AM

man you know the more i read about what i just wrote this might be the right thing to do. what is killing me right now is how i am so upset. i have lost 20lbs in the last two months. i cried myself to sleep for the first month. how can this be killing me and her be just like all peachy and stuff? i just dont understand. her sister says it is bothering her but no one can tell. should i wait and see what the next couple months hold or should i simply move on? she said she is done and there is nothing there. i am not going to get my children eveeryday like i have been simply beacuse all she is doing is using me as a baby sitter till she gets off work. i pay child support so why should i have to feed my little girl and my step-son on a daily basis and cart them around to please her. dont get me wrong i love the kids and i do want to see them everyday but i cannot continue to let her run all over me. she has to grow up and be an adult sooner or later. she wanted primary custody of my girl so if you ask me she needs to be a primary caregiver. if she doesnt want to be then we can just go back to court. should i wait and hpe on the next couple months or should i move on?

08-03-2007, 12:42 AM	#9 (permalink)
stevewsc Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: rockhill, sc Posts: 41	Re: can you help me save my marriage man you know the more i read about what i just wrote this might be the right thing to do. what is killing me right now is how i am so upset. i have lost 20lbs in the last two months. i cried myself to sleep for the first month. how can this be killing me and her be just like all peachy and stuff? i just dont understand. her sister says it is bothering her but no one can tell. should i wait and see what the next couple months hold or should i simply move on? she said she is done and there is nothing there. i am not going to get my children eveeryday like i have been simply beacuse all she is doing is using me as a baby sitter till she gets off work. i pay child support so why should i have to feed my little girl and my step-son on a daily basis and cart them around to please her. dont get me wrong i love the kids and i do want to see them everyday but i cannot continue to let her run all over me. she has to grow up and be an adult sooner or later. she wanted primary custody of my girl so if you ask me she needs to be a primary caregiver. if she doesnt want to be then we can just go back to court. should i wait and hpe on the next couple months or should i move on?