Re: Am i just being paranoid
Football chatroom my ass - first time in a chatroom my ass - he's lying. More specifically he's gaslighting you - trying to convince you you're crazy for being suspicious or worried. I have no idea if he's cheating on you or not but I'll bet dollars to doughnuts that he wasn't in a football chatroom and that it wasn't his first time. If it was football why take so long to admit it? If it's all above board why clear all the history? Do you know why guilty people act suspiciously? BECAUSE THEY'RE GUILTY.
If he had nothing to hide and you asked he'd respond with some variation of, "look, see here's what I've been doing." Not with denial and by trying to gaslight you. If you see and smell smoke and someone holding a match tells you, "that's not smoke it's fog. Smoke? You must be nuts - what smoke?" Would you say, "Okie dokie - guess it's fog - thanks," or would you keep putting two and two together and investigate. You're instinct is telling you something is off - justifiably - or else you wouldn't have posted here. Listen to it and keep investigating. Like I said - I have no idea if he's cheating or not - but there's something he doesn't want you to see....
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