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emmdubs · 03-05-2008, 10:14 AM

We've been married for almost 9 years. He used to be fun and sweet. And he just kind of became miserable himself. I told him the last time that today "that day" was the last day I was to blame for him being miserable. I don't think he realized that marriage and kids took so much work.

My son is 6 years old. He knows something is up because I spend most nights on the couch. I just know that he would be so spiteful if I tried to go to a counselor. He has the "rubber" syndrome....you know "everything bounces off me and goes back to you". Everything is always my fault. I think you're right. That he wants me to do it so I'm the one who filed and I'm the one who left....

I don't even know where to start.

03-05-2008, 10:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
emmdubs Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 2	Re: He Pretty Much Hates Me We've been married for almost 9 years. He used to be fun and sweet. And he just kind of became miserable himself. I told him the last time that today "that day" was the last day I was to blame for him being miserable. I don't think he realized that marriage and kids took so much work. My son is 6 years old. He knows something is up because I spend most nights on the couch. I just know that he would be so spiteful if I tried to go to a counselor. He has the "rubber" syndrome....you know "everything bounces off me and goes back to you". Everything is always my fault. I think you're right. That he wants me to do it so I'm the one who filed and I'm the one who left.... I don't even know where to start.