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Blanca · 04-28-2009, 08:19 PM

that is tough shotsy. im sure you really love and care about her and hate to see her hurting, but at the same time im sure you dont want to be hurting either.

it may help you to work on your boundaries with her. she may be depressed, but that does not mean you have to protect her from her actions. she will have to learn to reap what she sows, and even though its a painful process, you cant protect her from the pain she is creating. she'll have to know how her actions are affecting you. it is the only way she can heal.

try to do things that make you happy, and never do anything that makes you feel resentful.

04-28-2009, 08:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
Blanca Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 4,050	Re: I am really exhausted that is tough shotsy. im sure you really love and care about her and hate to see her hurting, but at the same time im sure you dont want to be hurting either. it may help you to work on your boundaries with her. she may be depressed, but that does not mean you have to protect her from her actions. she will have to learn to reap what she sows, and even though its a painful process, you cant protect her from the pain she is creating. she'll have to know how her actions are affecting you. it is the only way she can heal. try to do things that make you happy, and never do anything that makes you feel resentful. __________________ "I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality." - Bryon Katie