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Umoja · 12-31-2011, 11:06 PM

I am engaged and the wedding date is rapidly approaching. My fiancee's family are manipulating and hateful. They have said some pretty horrible things about me to my fiancee, all which were not true.

They are rude and classless. I have shown nothing more than respect and patience towards them. I've always addressed them with respect and went out of my way to be hospitable and polite.

Prior to the recent events, it was only the mother who was insanely rude and mean. Now the rest of the family has fallen into place with this same line of thinking. I am seriously having second thoughts about the wedding and whether or not I want to have any further involvement with her.

We have been dating for over two years and we are less than a month away before the big day. My fiancee has defended me many times to her family, but they just keep finding new ways to come at her with negative and untrue things about me. The times when I have expressed my concern and how upset I have been over their negative involvement, she agrees that they are out of line, but then finds a way to defend them. This angers me even more.

I do not associate with any of them, and I have removed them from my phone and Facebook account. They are a cancer to me and I do not want to be around them on any level.

Any advice? Should I go through with the wedding? Happy New Years everyone.

12-31-2011, 11:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
Umoja Registered User Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 8	More Than Second Thoughts I am engaged and the wedding date is rapidly approaching. My fiancee's family are manipulating and hateful. They have said some pretty horrible things about me to my fiancee, all which were not true. They are rude and classless. I have shown nothing more than respect and patience towards them. I've always addressed them with respect and went out of my way to be hospitable and polite. Prior to the recent events, it was only the mother who was insanely rude and mean. Now the rest of the family has fallen into place with this same line of thinking. I am seriously having second thoughts about the wedding and whether or not I want to have any further involvement with her. We have been dating for over two years and we are less than a month away before the big day. My fiancee has defended me many times to her family, but they just keep finding new ways to come at her with negative and untrue things about me. The times when I have expressed my concern and how upset I have been over their negative involvement, she agrees that they are out of line, but then finds a way to defend them. This angers me even more. I do not associate with any of them, and I have removed them from my phone and Facebook account. They are a cancer to me and I do not want to be around them on any level. Any advice? Should I go through with the wedding? Happy New Years everyone.