| | Re: Abused or not?
"Could it have been a one off innocent thing? "
There is no one-off-innocent-thing between a grandfather and his grand daughter. Where does such a tought come from? It does sound like he sexually abused her. If he abused her, he probably abused her mother and her sisters. Child abusers ususally do not just select one child to abuse.
Other than the issue about her grandfather, why does it bother you whether or not she was involved with anyone before you?