Originally Posted by draconis

Cheating depends on the couple. Is porn cheating? How about if it is of the couple involved? How about self stimulation? Is emotional relationships with another cheating, how about chats or blogs? Does reading cheesy sex novels count as porn? What if you wrote the cheesy novels? How about if the couple are swingers? Forums? what if the forums talk about sex or addictions?

These are just a few of the grey areas. Every person and every couple has different beliefs. It is up to the couple to communicate well enough to set boundries of what is acceptable.

draconis