| | Re: 10 Month Separation, Going Great, then BAM...(long, please read)
I suggest get bait of space between you 2, whilst she seeks help. Even when you moved out, you saw each other quite soon there after, not really giving yourselves the space you needed to find yourselves again.
You've been an extremely supportive partner, but until she's happy with herself, she will never be happy with you. And its not fair on either of you.