Originally Posted by accept
I am sure that is not the reason the family is against you. It seems you either dont know or more likely dont want to tell us.
It is that type of spirit or attitude that creates these issues that I have mentioned. I am not on here looking for people to take sides... mainly mine. I am in a situation and I came before complete strangers who do not know me from Adam who could give me some ideas for me to help make my final decision. I needed for people to be completely impartial. So, for everyone who took the time to read what I have posted, I sincerely thank you. Good or bad, I think that I have made my choice.
The other day, my fiancee and I went to see a counselor and we were able to really work out the miscommunication. We were talking, but things were getting lost in translation. So we were given some excellent advice on how to work out these issues. There was also some wonderful advice given about family interference. Both of us agreed on what was said and we are working on improving these things... as a couple and without her family's involvement. I think that we are going to be okay and all I can do... all that we can do is take one day at a time and strengthen our foundation.
Thank you all once again. Sincerely.