Originally Posted by morituri
Very few people have the emotional fortitude to implement 'Just Let Them Go' from the get go. It usually takes a little bit of time before he/she is finally able to do it.
I will attest to that. It is incredibly difficult to do. One of the things that helped me is that you don't need to feel it to do it.
Do the 180 with your head and your heart will follow, eventually.
It is very empowering and will help you feel better very fast. It is however quite tiring. okay, that is an understatement. It is exhausting, but really, what it the alternative?
You can become a cat lady or one of those guy you see propping up the bar on their own for years and years.
Who needs that. Life is short.