| | Re: Wife orgasm 'problem'
First Jimmy: women don't climax as easily as you do.
Second: Many women NEVER climax from penetration.
Third: Many women ENJOY sex without climaxing. You may not be able to wrap your head around that, but it's true.
Do you go down on her? The easiest way (for me) to make any woman orgasm is via oral. And if you don't know what you're doing, go read some things on the internet about licking her.
And DO NOT focus on her orgasm. Just kiss her and say "I really want to taste you tonight" or something like that. Then go down on her. Don't say "My goal is to make you cum" -- that's very unsexy and puts too much pressure on her.
Though if she's never made herself cum, you have your work cut out for you.