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stav · 03-07-2008, 06:43 AM

Draconis is a bit harsh but there is truth in what he says.

First Rayne, do you not have any family or close friends near by to offer you some support sweetheart? Perhaps your doctor is easy to talk to, and you can maybe say some of this to them. You are shut up alone in the house all day, and that is not good for you, no wonder you are depressed.

Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it, all the privileges and comforts of a wife and homemaker, and all the benefits of a bachelor lifestyle as well.

you need to assert yourself, but I know that this is a hard thing for you to even contemplate right now in the state you are in and with a baby on the way.

Try and find someone to talk to. Your parents, best friend, any brothers or sisters? How about his parents? Do they get on with you? You need support before you can start to consider your options in this marriage of convenience (for him).

03-07-2008, 06:43 AM	#3 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: Pregnant and depressed Draconis is a bit harsh but there is truth in what he says. First Rayne, do you not have any family or close friends near by to offer you some support sweetheart? Perhaps your doctor is easy to talk to, and you can maybe say some of this to them. You are shut up alone in the house all day, and that is not good for you, no wonder you are depressed. Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it, all the privileges and comforts of a wife and homemaker, and all the benefits of a bachelor lifestyle as well. you need to assert yourself, but I know that this is a hard thing for you to even contemplate right now in the state you are in and with a baby on the way. Try and find someone to talk to. Your parents, best friend, any brothers or sisters? How about his parents? Do they get on with you? You need support before you can start to consider your options in this marriage of convenience (for him).