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I am 43 and I have been married 20 yrs. I have 2 boys 10 & 18.
I work FT and so does my husband. I have been dealing with problems since right after my oldest was born.
He had an affair when my son was 3 months old. I forgave but never forgot. He then signed my name to credit card applications and ran up credit card bills. We were forced into bankruptcy about 15 yrs ago but have rebuilt our credit. He spends no time with our boys because he said his dad never did. He gets stressed from work and verbally lashes out at the boys. Now he is addicted to online video games. He plays all weekends. Starts around 9 on Friday and plays off and on all weekend. Saturdays are 12:30 to midnight or later. We spend no quality time together. I have threatened to leave and he cries and begs me to stay. My 10 yr old wants me to meet someone who will spend time with us. What should I do? Leaving seems like a huge step. Sometimes I wonder if I am staying because its what I am used to and not because I am happy with him.
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