| | Re: Wife orgasm 'problem'
It is great that you guys are having good communication about sex now! One thing that has helped us is reading a book together. My wife has never had a problem with orgasm but it has helped us communicate. "The Guide To Getting It On" was good. The other one was "Your Long Erotic Weekend". It takes 4 days and is best to do when you can take 3 or 4 days. There is a day where the pleasure is focused on her, a day when it is focused on her, then a day when you both enjoy an orgasm together. You end drawing up a "good for life sex plan". I was one of the best 4 day get-a ways ever took!
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)