| | Re: Filed for divorce, now what?
Money is a HUGE issue, more so lack of it.
I'd say once someone tells you they want a divorce it would be in your best interests to mentally ready yourself as to the things you will need to begin your life divorced and all divorce settlemewnts should be based upon that as you have been married so long.
To say money is the only issue, just to note, it is a major issue ( lack of it) and may cause you a great deal of hardship in the future after your divorce.
I don't know if you can convince someone to go to counseling.
It never worked when I asked my husband.... as I see it, he thinks he can solve everything, lay down the law...
he doesn't even realize it yet but its not working.
He does not even care or realize how disgusted and unhappy I am with him as a husband.. because he doesn't care to...
just an example
as to why I don't think you can convince anyone of anything.