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827Aug · 05-01-2009, 08:38 PM

I'm right there with you! My spouse said he wanted a divorce in 2007 because he wasn't happy. It has rocked on until now. He wouldn't go to marriage counseling to reconcile the marriage. He went to a couple of sessions because he wanted an amicable divorce and for us to remain friends. I have gone to counseling for 8 months now. I've learned plenty! I have lived with someone who has the Peter Pan Syndrome all these years. And because of that he is financially irresponsible! He has bankrupted our business enjoying all the pleasures in life. I decided to step off of the merry-go-round this week. After all, it is what he wanted! I didn't want a divorce either, but there was a breaking point for me!

Good luck!

05-01-2009, 08:38 PM	#4 (permalink)
827Aug Moderator Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 3,977	Re: Filed for divorce, now what? I'm right there with you! My spouse said he wanted a divorce in 2007 because he wasn't happy. It has rocked on until now. He wouldn't go to marriage counseling to reconcile the marriage. He went to a couple of sessions because he wanted an amicable divorce and for us to remain friends. I have gone to counseling for 8 months now. I've learned plenty! I have lived with someone who has the Peter Pan Syndrome all these years. And because of that he is financially irresponsible! He has bankrupted our business enjoying all the pleasures in life. I decided to step off of the merry-go-round this week. After all, it is what he wanted! I didn't want a divorce either, but there was a breaking point for me! Good luck!