Originally Posted by MEM11363
99% of the time I take a shower just before sex. I like being super clean and fresh and I would be ummm - self conscious if I didn't. My W is the same. This is our routine.
FYI: I take two kinds of showers at night. A two minute version - which means we aren't having sex. And a longer - clean room version when we are. She DID have to tell me this - about 15 years ago. She told me once. I turned bright red - apologized and have been a clean nut ever since.
Yup...happened to me that way, and I said to myself that it would never happen again.
I know my wife likes me super clean... she's said it. Not sure why the message doesn't get through that I like the same...again, for more intense intimacy. I'll take her anyway for a rough and tumble quickie...(although those are few and far between)