Originally Posted by Scannerguard

Realbrighteyes,

Honestly, I don't know your problem.

Before we converse in the future, you just need to tell me, "I want to debate you, Scannerguard" and then I'll know where you are coming from.

I only said the 15-35% child support "evaporating into nothingness" could be a possible explanation for a declining work ethic.

I did not condone it (and went out of my way to say that). I do not encourage it to any guy.

It's stinkin' thinkin' but nonetheless, the OP is asking about "Thinking" and I am sticking to my story, that I have seen a lot of men not take that promotion, not take overtime, not take that side job.

Why?

Because I would just have to hand a lot of it over to my ex, is the thinking, and she'll just spend it on make-up and nails.

My attorney has noted he has seen it and has counseled me otherwise. I told him no need to; I'm on a 100%. I will pay my share and continue to try to earn more, no matter how the system penalizes me, if it does.

I'd rather be out scratching a living out, meeking an existence, being drown in child support (I am not, I think it's fair), than be back in a house being the family **** (and treated as such) cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry, and definitely not appreciated for such.

Kapeesh?

Never, EVER will I go back to a Feminist lifestyle. I'd rather live in a trailer and smoke Camels and drink Piels with Billy Bob Jimmy Boy.