Originally Posted by AngelmommyX2
I never planned on ever being a SAHM. infact I am the kinda of person who needs a break from my family life. dont get me wrong i love my family more then anything but there are times you just have to have some breathing room. I will not be a SAHM for ever that is forsure. i would love to go back to work today. My husband doesnt seem to care about my needs or how i feel. And i have about had it. Tonight for instance. I came home layed down for a few mins he went to the store. It was like he had to get away from the kids. But he gets pissed when i dont want to clean or go out on the weekends. well of course i dont want to your home so you can help with the kids while i try to catch up on sleep. is what i am thinking... well enought venting for now.
Have you said any of this to your husband? Because if you haven't you shouldn't be on this forum asking people's advice who don't even know you. And that's not being mean... I'm just saying that you are young and you are married... the first person you need to go to is your husband and not to other people for help. That will end up turning a lot of things bad in the long run. It is good to get advice of course, but you need to talk to your husband FIRST before saying anything to anyone and if you feel like your point is not getting through then go to your family and friends who know you two or just you more.
Best of luck!