Originally Posted by SecondTimesTheCharm
dare I masturbate, I then get condemned as she measures my amount of ejaculate each time to see whether or not I have masturbated recently.
I'm getting the picture that she wants a baby... and that sex for her is now only about getting a baby. [Please don't bring a baby into a marriage like this - it won't make it better, only worse... WAY less sex...]
Jerk off man... if she's that concerned about getting every drop of your ejaculate, she should have sex with you. You could calmly explain that you have to release some of that tension and it's either going to be with or without her...