Originally Posted by HelloooNurse
Maybe she's had enough of you whinging at her about sex all the time. You sound like a right nag when it comes to the topic of sex. You need to settle down and take a chill pill. Its no wonder she isn't into it. Sounds more like boot camp than a sexual encounter!
I would feel sorry for your husband being that you see this as nagging. I didn't see anywhere in there where he was nagging her. Sex/Intimacy is a one of the major parts of a marriage - both spouses should do all they can within reason to please each other and find enjoyment for themselves.
If he brings these things up to his wife obviously she should recognize that this is something important to him. If she refuses to respond in some way that's when it becomes a problem. I can then see it as nagging if she constantly ignores the issue. It would be her fault that nagging starts.
Your comment is pretty ignorant.