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carmaenforcer · 03-07-2008, 07:37 PM

OH HELL NO! Try going without (REGULARLY) for a month or more like is the case in our marriage. She (my wife) tried to pull some stuff recently and she made me wait 2 months, a little bit longer I think but I didn't check.

Yeah, women will have a billion reasons why they are not in the mood and a billion suggestions on what you can do to get them in the mood. You have to understand or you have to be more understanding or some stuff like that.

Like I said, I have been living this hormonal hell for about three years now, as it just gets worse and worse, and all I get is, all you care about is sex, you put too much pressure on me, you have to understand, blah, blah, blah... That was o.k. for the first few months, maybe the first year, year and a half, but not a realistic existence for a health man in reproductive age.

I finally had to tell her, either you start giving it to me more regularly or start being cool with me getting it somewhere else, bottom line. I told her, I love you and all and if I have to wait someday for a real reason like illness or if you had a reason to be stressing like a death in the family, I would be the most caring, patient man on earth. I will not however be at the whim of a womans moods, they are too unpredictable and unstable.
Sex for us men is just that, sex, it is not nor should it be so complicated.

03-07-2008, 07:37 PM	#12 (permalink)
carmaenforcer Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 150	Re: Limited Sex - Arguments OH HELL NO! Try going without (REGULARLY) for a month or more like is the case in our marriage. She (my wife) tried to pull some stuff recently and she made me wait 2 months, a little bit longer I think but I didn't check. Yeah, women will have a billion reasons why they are not in the mood and a billion suggestions on what you can do to get them in the mood. You have to understand or you have to be more understanding or some stuff like that. Like I said, I have been living this hormonal hell for about three years now, as it just gets worse and worse, and all I get is, all you care about is sex, you put too much pressure on me, you have to understand, blah, blah, blah... That was o.k. for the first few months, maybe the first year, year and a half, but not a realistic existence for a health man in reproductive age. I finally had to tell her, either you start giving it to me more regularly or start being cool with me getting it somewhere else, bottom line. I told her, I love you and all and if I have to wait someday for a real reason like illness or if you had a reason to be stressing like a death in the family, I would be the most caring, patient man on earth. I will not however be at the whim of a womans moods, they are too unpredictable and unstable. Sex for us men is just that, sex, it is not nor should it be so complicated.