Still didn't deal with it.
You know? I wrote about it in the past. The "no more nice guy" method basically expect you to do all of the heavy lifting all the time. You are becoming a little bit of a father, a teacher and what's not. You have to set boundaries, while she will continue her "fitness tests". When everything is fine and she finally learns that you are an alpha male, you will much less of those but whenever another one will come you will have to deal with it again.
But then, sometimes, like yesterday, I was just not in the mood of being an alpha male, I didn't want to set boundaries, I just wanted that SHE will finally start treating me like she should, without me always being the "educator".
And so she didn't, as she never does.
I can never come to her and say "you hurt me" and hear a genuine apology. Instead I have to say "don't do xyz again".
So instead of talking about it, I was crabby the entire day yesterday. This morning my wife told me that it's sad that this is how I acted, and I reply that it is sad but I need some time for myself to be sad.
I didn't even think of telling her WHY I am sad cause that will only get her to start bashing me again.
So here I am, sitting and writing this, an alpha male who wants some quite time of being an alpha
