fredfoxw28

Oh my god, you sound just like my husband. We fight about the same thing. We just had a fight right now about it.Since you are like my husband in that aspect maybe I can understand him more by talking to you. Do you think your wife has a sexual disfunction? Why do you feel that she just does it because she has to? How come you can't understand that she could actually be tired, god forbid or maybe not in the mood. Is all the expections put on her? Meaning, you wait for her to initiate and when she doesn't you get mad? Or you initiate and she does not feel like it and then you hold that against her forever? These are things you should think about. You want sex period. But you don't want to put in the effort it takes to have sex. Relationships change and you have to learn to change with the relationship. This marriage is not only about you and your needs. Lets say you go out and get it somewhere else, you maybe sexually satisfied but believe me when I say you will find something wrong with that person. There is no perfect marriage. Learn to work with what you got and stop stressing her about when you get it because you are pushing her away and your putting pressure on her. That's exactly what I am going through. My husband claims he is not sexually satisfied. Do you understand how that makes me feel? Do you think that will make me want to hop in bed with him, uhh no..... So please do yourself a favor and stop beating her over the head with your demands, that approach obviously does not work. Try something different maybe you should look at yourself and wonder why she does not want to sleep with you. Theres always room for improvement.