Originally Posted by CandieGirl
He did throw it away...And don't feel guilty. You are very strong, and for that, I commend you. The people that stick around trying to work things out, are very often too afraid to end things; sometimes there are children involved, or a sense of "I owe it to the marriage, we've been together so long...". Personally, I don't agree with those things. And I wouldn't feel guilty, either. He should be the one feeling guilty!
I find it interesting that in other circles online or offline, most people interpret raising an issue about your relationship to your partner suggests that you're insecure, and, therefore, a loser.
I have responded that no, an insecure person simply puts their head in the sand.
Maybe someone can explain where this crazy assumption comes from.