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Suemolly · 01-09-2012, 07:19 PM

I sometimes can't help going through the thoughts that maybe if we have kids, he would not have left/cheated/acted irresponsibly etc. I know those are furthest from the truth, but still, I can't help thinking that way. I also think that betrayed spouses with children tend to be more motivated to stay strong and do positive things during and after the divorce, for the sake of the children. Us without kids have less to motivate us each day we wake up, and tend to do more destructive things to deal with the pain. That said, I am glad I don't have kids with that terrible husband of mine. The thought of carrying that man's baby inside me seems repulsive now.

01-09-2012, 07:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
Suemolly Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 88	Re: I'm Jealous I sometimes can't help going through the thoughts that maybe if we have kids, he would not have left/cheated/acted irresponsibly etc. I know those are furthest from the truth, but still, I can't help thinking that way. I also think that betrayed spouses with children tend to be more motivated to stay strong and do positive things during and after the divorce, for the sake of the children. Us without kids have less to motivate us each day we wake up, and tend to do more destructive things to deal with the pain. That said, I am glad I don't have kids with that terrible husband of mine. The thought of carrying that man's baby inside me seems repulsive now.