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Beowulf · 01-09-2012, 08:52 PM

Oh and one other followup. I know you will probably flame me for saying this but I don't think she is having multiple exit affairs. You are looking for any excuse to end this. If you read my story in the Long Time Reconciliation thread or whatever the heck its called you are doing the exact same thing I did. You are looking for a reason for her to blow it so you can extricate yourself from this marriage without feeling guilty. What you don't understand is that by doing that you are blocking reconciliation. And your problems will not get solved that way anyway. You need IC to help you deal with your feelings so you don't develop PTSD symptoms. You need to heal as much as she does and then you need to heal together whether you stay a couple or not.

01-09-2012, 08:52 PM	#242 (permalink)
Beowulf Banned Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 2,165	Re: Lesbian/Bi/Serial... oh my Oh and one other followup. I know you will probably flame me for saying this but I don't think she is having multiple exit affairs. You are looking for any excuse to end this. If you read my story in the Long Time Reconciliation thread or whatever the heck its called you are doing the exact same thing I did. You are looking for a reason for her to blow it so you can extricate yourself from this marriage without feeling guilty. What you don't understand is that by doing that you are blocking reconciliation. And your problems will not get solved that way anyway. You need IC to help you deal with your feelings so you don't develop PTSD symptoms. You need to heal as much as she does and then you need to heal together whether you stay a couple or not.