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Old 01-10-2012, 07:40 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: If you don't understand your "W"

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Originally Posted by tobio View Post
My OH says I am like an open book. Very easy to read. He has at times been able to come up with what I am thinking and the why before I have even known it myself.

I am very conscious of my body language. I am naturally a very shy person and that can result in a lot of "closed" body language which can appear aloof when I haven't meant it to. OH picks up on a lot and I don't always have to say what I feel as he's got it already.

Conversely he can be so incredibly ignorant I do not understand it! We have had in-depth discussions about issues and later on down the line he swears blind I NEVER conveyed that info and the conversation NEVER took place! Frustrating when I have made a particular effort to discuss something, rather than being closed off abd harbouring things. I have yet to understand how he can participate and engage himself in such a conversation yet practically accuse me of having invented the fact we ever talked about it!
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People can be absent minded. My wife swears she tells me things when she hasn't. I think she makes a note in her mind that she needs to tell me something and then life happens. I would suggest doing follow ups the next day or an email about something you happened to "think of" regarding last nights conversation.
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