Uphill ... I don't think people are trying to devalue OP's feelings, but rather suggest his priorities are way out of wack if he's willing to destroy his family and abandon his children over whether or not his **** is getting sucked. It seems an extraordinarily immature outlook.
My guess, as has been suggested previously, his wife didn't stop doing it just because. There's likely an underlying issue here. Discover and address the issue, and the bjs may very well return.
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