i can relate to your problem, because i am having the very same one, my husband would rather do it hisself than be with me, and i have got to the point that im about to loose it. I really wish i could give some good advice, but after reading what everyone else has said, im still not sure what to do. I have tried acting like i dont care thatwe dont have sex, and he really loves that, because we would go months at a time without it. complaining doesnt do any good, talking doesnt work. so i dont know what else there is to do, im seriously thinking of leaving him after 5 years of marriage. i wish i had more advise for you, but i to am looking for answers
