Originally Posted by Iwant2bhappy
You need to quit doing this to yourself. Why continue to spy and be paranoid about everything?
You either need to trust her and hope things work out or just let her go. Spying is only hurting you and driving you CRAZY.
It has been over a year and you still have not found any concrete evidence, so why are you doing this to yourself?
Well..not exactly true. I found her emails to another guy...which I think I stopped. I found her talking to someone on her trips home.....someone at work. She is suddenly (after working there for 3 years) leaving about an hour later (a couple times a bit more) from work. Tonight...she said she needed to work a bit later to "clean up her office." Really??? Who works over, just to clean up their office?? That's kinda what triggered it for me.
But...you are right....the spying is what's driving me crazy. OTOH...the spying is what caught the EA beginning with the guy from DD's dance class.