I earn $ 800,000 per year. my girlfriend earns $60,000 per year.
when we get married, I would like her to stay home-no need for her to go to work when I can spend for both of us comfortably and also because she has to wake up at 5am on workdays and she returns home around 7pm so she does not like her job much and I hate to see her so tired
we have discussed this and she would like to stay home too
I want to hire a maid to do washing, cleaning, ironing, sweeping the garden and home etc.she said she will be home so she can do the housework. I explained that I would like her to relax and enjoy life and do what she likes instead of doing chores. She agreed.
So since we both are ok with it that’s what we want to do.
She won’t be bored at home.. she ll take our two dogs for walks, do volunteer work at the local animal shelter and the elderly home, cook and bake, do gardening work, read, visit her parents who are nearby, go to gym etc those are what she loves to do.
I will never cheat on her or abuse her
I don’t want to buy her love because she loves me enough already and im not insecure in anyway (looks, age, sexual performance etc)
My girlfriend is not a gold digger. She is an educated and simple woman who didn’t even know what I earn what car I use etc when she fell in love with me.
All money will be in joint a/c so she is secure
1 So is there something wrong with what we want to do? Her friend tries to change her mind and I think the friend is jealous
2 if you are a man, if you earned what I earn you would like your wife to stay home and would you provide her every comfort which you can afford?
3 If you are a woman and if you are in the position of my gf ( tiring job, do have lots of things to do at home, husband want to give you a comfy life) you will stay home and would agree to have a maid right? Wrong?
4 Some Rich celebrities like actors, sportsmen, singers, directors etc have housewives and they also have lots of maids, those wives often get gifts worth millions too. so this friend of my gf is ok with them, but not with us. so don’t you think that shows how jealous she is?
when we get married, I would like her to stay home-no need for her to go to work when I can spend for both of us comfortably and also because she has to wake up at 5am on workdays and she returns home around 7pm so she does not like her job much and I hate to see her so tired
we have discussed this and she would like to stay home too
I want to hire a maid to do washing, cleaning, ironing, sweeping the garden and home etc.she said she will be home so she can do the housework. I explained that I would like her to relax and enjoy life and do what she likes instead of doing chores. She agreed.
So since we both are ok with it that’s what we want to do.
She won’t be bored at home.. she ll take our two dogs for walks, do volunteer work at the local animal shelter and the elderly home, cook and bake, do gardening work, read, visit her parents who are nearby, go to gym etc those are what she loves to do.
I will never cheat on her or abuse her
I don’t want to buy her love because she loves me enough already and im not insecure in anyway (looks, age, sexual performance etc)
My girlfriend is not a gold digger. She is an educated and simple woman who didn’t even know what I earn what car I use etc when she fell in love with me.
All money will be in joint a/c so she is secure
1 So is there something wrong with what we want to do? Her friend tries to change her mind and I think the friend is jealous
2 if you are a man, if you earned what I earn you would like your wife to stay home and would you provide her every comfort which you can afford?
3 If you are a woman and if you are in the position of my gf ( tiring job, do have lots of things to do at home, husband want to give you a comfy life) you will stay home and would agree to have a maid right? Wrong?
4 Some Rich celebrities like actors, sportsmen, singers, directors etc have housewives and they also have lots of maids, those wives often get gifts worth millions too. so this friend of my gf is ok with them, but not with us. so don’t you think that shows how jealous she is?