Kysmom

Thanks Kath. In response to your question about porn...he's not into it other than looking at a few playboy pics online every now and then and usually that's in front of me. Also, since we live with my mom, son, and brother, the only place he'd ever be able to satisfy himself would be in the bathroom because there is always someone at the house and, like I said, he's never in our bedroom.
Also, I'd love to get counseling, but he doesn't want to because he doesn't think there's a problem. He thinks the only reason there's a problem is because I complain. In other words, he thinks I create the problems. I may consider going to counseling on my own on a regular basis, but I'm not sure how much good that would do. I actually found a place where you could get 3 complimentary counseling sessions if you didn't have insurance, and I went a couple of months ago. By the end of the last session he had come to the conclusion that my problems were A. a mother who over-steps her boundaries and B. a narccissistic husband. The first I can agree with because it's very obvious. However, I'm not sure how he can come to such a conclusion about my husband without talking with him first. Anyway, thanks again. I just get so frustrated with him sometimes and really need a place to vent and people that understand.