 Re: thinking of getting a sex partner whilst married
The best thing to do is to end the marriage. She will be sad but she will recover. Right now two of you are unhappy and this effect you child so there are really 3.
If you think about it, getting a divorce is an orderly way to end things. You can plan carefully and make sure she gets the support she needs to get through. If you cheat I think it will destroy her and by extension you because you care for her.
The outcome of divorce does not have to be negative for all around under the circumstance. It is very possible that she settled for you. Maybe she though you would make a good husband and father but did not find you sexually attractive. She may regret her decision and feel depressed about it.
Let each other go. She will be spured to marry a man that she feels sexually attracted to and you will marry a woman who is sexually attracted to you. Win-win.
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