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ok, here is my story, My wife and I have been married for 15 years and I was faithful for the first 13.
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What? You think you deserve a medal for that? That is what you are suppose to do.
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Then she just became disinterested in sex. We had talked about having a child but even when the "time was right" she wasn't really into it.
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And what steps did you take to find out why she had become disinterested????????
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I am in great shape and I recieved "the look" from women all the time. I decided to take someone up on the offer and since I have been having the best sex of my life with my girlfriend.
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I'm very happy for you. . . .NOT!!!
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So All my needs are being met,
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Is that all that matters to you????
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I have mind blowing sex with my girlfriend and dinner ready for me at home with the wife.
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Well isn't that just great. . .as long as you are taken care of. . . . . .
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Well, in one of our brief encounters, my wife and I concieved a child. It was very unexpected.
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Well isn't that just great, now you are bringing an innocent child into this mess.
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So now I have a dilemma, my girlfriend wants me more and more and I fear if I tell her my wife is pregnant, she will force herself not to call me any more.
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Waaaaa, Waaaaaa, Waaaaaaa, it's still all about you isn't it??
You have a baby on the way, you should be the one that doesn't call her anymore!!!
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Honestly, My girlfriend is what makes my life with my wife bearable. My relationship with my wife is so much more bearable now.
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If life with your wife was so unbearable you should have ended the marriage before you found someone else.
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Should I tell my girlfriend my wife is pregnant?
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Yes. . .. . DUH!! You should also tell her goodbye.
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Can I just provide for my wife and child and keep the worlds separate?
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No.
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I want a family but I don't want to give up the most incredible sexual relationship I have ever known!
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You will never have a family while cheating on your spouse. If you cheat on your wife you will also be cheating on your child. You affair already takes time, energy and financial resources away from from your wife, it will take those things away from your child also. When the child gets older and asks "daddy where have you been I wanted to play with you", what are you going to say "sorry I had to go screw my mistress"???