Originally Posted by Timid1
There is no excuse, it doesn't really matter why I did it.
There is no emotions going on. I could care less if I ever talk to the guy again. He is married now. I have known him for a long time. Once in awhile we would sleep together. I saw him this summer and it happened, and again last week. There is no contact in between, except he called me around xmas just to say hi. There is no relationship. I have no intentions of talking to him again.
I am so guilt feeling that it is affecting my job and I cant have sex with my husband anymore.
Timid, you are feeling guilty because you are currently having an affair. You say there aren't emotions going on but I doubt it. Not if you've been sleeping with him for that long. You were sleeping with him during your marriage, and now during his. You say you've known him lon gso my bet is it's an EA too. Childhood friend? Ex boyfriend?
I wish you luck. It's not an easy road. But I can assure you that as long as you are having an affair, you are going to feel awful and your marriage doesn't have a leg to stand on.
All the best.