crazycasey

My first question is, is your child still sleeping with you? Also, does your wife work? I am a stay at home mom and so I have a little more energy than maybe a mother who works all day and then does the chores and takes care of a baby. But I am a women who really doesnt feel the need to have sex all the time either. But I did read a good book that helped me understand how my husband feels about sex. Its called The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. Anyways, it was an eye opener as far as sex was concerned. Who knew it was SO important. It is definitely not important to me. We have a small child too, and if I am not in the mood, then I tell him he can just have a quickie, ie. he gets in gets out sort of thing...thats fine for me, if I am tired and not in the mood, the last thing I want to do is have sex. But really, a lot of guys think you can just mention sex and your wife will be up for it right away. It doesnt work like that with us, we cant just hear the word and be turned on. Romantic kisses, backrubs and such really will go a long way.