crazycasey

Wow, I can't believe your wife would treat you in such a way. Shouldnt she think that its admirable that you love your kids and want to spend time with them? If you and her were divorced, would she not want you to spend the same amount of time with her children? I think that your kids should come first and anybody that has kids should know this. The love that you have for your kids outweighs all others. She sounds selfish and childish to me and I think that really, she needs to grow up and get over it. She knew you had other children when she decided to get pregnant by you and marry you. Maybe counseling or a couple of good books on the subject might do her some good. At least if she did some couseling, you would have a non-biased party that would let her in on the fact that caring for your children isnt such a bad thing!