Originally Posted by working_together
I don't see your wife as a person that goes out of her way to please others. Yeah, she sailed around with you, let you have a garden, etc. But then she has a ll this resentment towards you about it, and treats you accordingly....people pleaser? not sure
And if she wanted to make you happy then she wouldn't have gotten the CAT (yes, I said it lol), it was actually kind of a selfish thing to do.
Selfish and bad decisioons can be two different things. Wife comes from a cat family. I think she just thoght DG would love the cat once she got it. Instead he was offended and that in turn hurt her feelings. Just another case of good intentions gone bad. People hurt each other all the time and have no idea or intention of doing so.
BTW, it turns out that my whole family is allergic to cats. When we found this out we already had a house cat. It wasn't even a good cat. It hung on for fifteen years. We would have given it away but it liked to bite when it was done being petted.
That last trip to the vet was...........