swedish

I'm sure the financial stress from him losing his job isn't helping your situation at the moment. I can understand that you cannot go on the way things are. If you speak with your husband seriously about how you feel, he may get the wake-up call he needs to start listening and doing something about it. If he is unwilling to want to change things for the better, you deserve to be happy. The only thing I will add is that divorce will not make all of these issues disappear (I've been there) Although I am in a happy marriage now, since I have 3 children (all with my ex) we are still in contact and I still deal parenting issues in his home, his lack of work/ability/desire to pay child support, etc. so there are certain things you may not like that will follow you should you decide to leave. I would see if you can salvage your marriage but if not, have calm discussions with your husband regarding raising your daughter, etc. to minimize any anger he may have should you decide to go.