Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Left a marriage to jump in to a new relationship.

bhappy3 · 03-10-2008, 07:15 PM

Well, I think if you just read between the lines of your own post that you'll see that you two just need some space from each other. You can't leave one relationship and dive immediately into another one and expect it to work. (Shoot, you didn't even leave one before indulging in the next one... you had them melded together for a while... it kind of morphed from wife to threesome to girlfriend.) The body/mind/heart must heal from the first one first. Not to mention that your relationship with your girlfriend is based solely on sex and to form a life around that is just kidding yourself and her. I think you may truly lust her, but to love her... not so much. Take some time away, grieve your divorce.

03-10-2008, 07:15 PM	#7 (permalink)
bhappy3 Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: earth Posts: 270	Re: Left a marriage to jump in to a new relationship. Well, I think if you just read between the lines of your own post that you'll see that you two just need some space from each other. You can't leave one relationship and dive immediately into another one and expect it to work. (Shoot, you didn't even leave one before indulging in the next one... you had them melded together for a while... it kind of morphed from wife to threesome to girlfriend.) The body/mind/heart must heal from the first one first. Not to mention that your relationship with your girlfriend is based solely on sex and to form a life around that is just kidding yourself and her. I think you may truly lust her, but to love her... not so much. Take some time away, grieve your divorce. __________________