Originally Posted by wolfman
We sat in the car and talked. And I DID tell my wife...my W knows this OW as a "friend" of mine....I did tell her I was having lunch with her (maybe a lie about the 6hrs part, but she knew about the meeting..)
Well, you came to the right sight! You'll get a lot of advice here that is excellent.
Just to let you know i was betrayed by my wife. It's hell like you can't imagine. As good as it feels to you right now your wife and kids are going to suffer like no other.
Please listen to these people. I received a sympathy card from the woman i compared all women to since high school. I don't reply back. She is different, I am different and its just a dream and an escape from reality. I know what it feels to be betrayed and still love my wife dearly. Try hard with your wife and put your energy in her.
So many of the same stories here. But everyone thinks their love is so different from the others in the same circumstances.
I found out i can't escape the pain of my wife's affair like i would want to. Finding out I'm so much like most here dealing with it. Believe me the advice is great and saved me many of times but I would give anything to not be here telling you this and my old life was back.
Hope the best for you!