stav

How old is your child? As you work part time I assume it is in daycare/school of some sort for at least part of the day.

Work out what you would earn if you took your current job full time, and then find out how much it would cost to have your child in daycare full time, plus someone to take them to school and pick them up, or additional transport costs if you or your husband did it.

That will probably be enough to make him think about it more!

As for the rest, your self esteem is low, why shouldn't you take care of the bills? You are more than capable, you just need a little more confidence in yourself. Why not try taking on some small section, say the utilities, and see how you go with that?

Once you are a little more outgoing, your hubby will realise what an interesting and fun wife he has at home, and will rush back without being asked!

Oh as for 'what do i get or it'
Make a list..

Your shirts washed and beautifully pressed.
Your socks matched into pairs and put in your drawer.
Your other clothes washed and folded and ready for your use.
Your meals lovingly prepared nightly and waiting on the table
Your child, cared for, educated, washed and clothed.
Your cupboards well stocked with all the food and drink you like.
Your home made warm and welcoming and kept clean and neat.
Your wife the perfect hostess when you have guests.

etc..

Start writing it down, then next time he says, 'what do i get'

GIVE IT TO HIM!