Re: How to talk
One thing I noticed over time in my own faled marriage is that people run out of things to talk about. It's not that they don't want to talk but think about it. If your relationship is like most you both go to work. then come home and eat, do chores, watch tv and go to bed. This becomes a daily habbit.
Now think about it this way. what if you both had hobbies that the other was not involved in. Maybe 2 or 3 times a week you each take turns going out with your own friends and doing what ever hobbie you have. Now you have something to talk about. You can ask him how what ever went that night. He can ask what you did. You both can laugh with each other over funny stories.
Togetherness is a great thing but I do think people need time away from each other to be there own person. Life gets into a rut when you know what your spouce is going to say before you even ask the question.
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