Re: A question for men
One thing that seams to be going on here is keeping score. I did this much so you should do that much. I think keeping score is a fast track to a divorce. A relationship is based on two people giving and getting. I've never seen one work that had set ground rules such as I did this, this and this so you have to do that, that and that.
My thought is if it is a healthy and good relationship then both people are more then willing to help out were needed with out being asked. You do it out of love and respect. If one party is not doing anything then it is time to sit down together or with a counsler and find out why.
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