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Amplexor · 03-11-2008, 07:32 AM

Twoblave

Dobson’s tactics can be pretty direct. May even seem confrontational so be couscous in your decision to use them. No I did not get confrontational with her or try to lay down the law. Take it or leave it so to speak. I simply carried myself with confidence when I was around her. Didn’t melt down emotionally and went about my normal business. I let her know I understood the situation and what a dangerous place the marriage was in but I wanted to work at it. And that if it didn’t work out at least I tried and I’d be OK moving on. I still told her I loved her when appropriate but didn’t stand around waiting for her to return the statement. Confidence and patience was the best course of action for me.

03-11-2008, 07:32 AM	#9 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 527	Re: On the verge of losing her. Twoblave Dobson’s tactics can be pretty direct. May even seem confrontational so be couscous in your decision to use them. No I did not get confrontational with her or try to lay down the law. Take it or leave it so to speak. I simply carried myself with confidence when I was around her. Didn’t melt down emotionally and went about my normal business. I let her know I understood the situation and what a dangerous place the marriage was in but I wanted to work at it. And that if it didn’t work out at least I tried and I’d be OK moving on. I still told her I loved her when appropriate but didn’t stand around waiting for her to return the statement. Confidence and patience was the best course of action for me. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.